I agree with Leslie and many others who view coming out as a process, although, I would like to make the following points.
I believe that
Coming out is not mandatory, it is your choice
Each of us makes decisions in life, some good, and some poorly timed.
The guiding question here is “what is best for me at this time?”
Some people use these labels however, it is your right to accept, reject or adapt these in labelling yourself.
At no time does anybody else have the right to label you or out you.
Only ever, use labels that you feel comfortable with and that fit.
Sometimes it maybe better not to use any labels, which is also ok.
Same-sex attraction refers to have feelings of sexual attraction towards another member of the same gender identity.
Teenagers often get themselves egg bound over this one people find others attractive for many different reasons.
It does not mean you are gay people have many different kinds of relationships, which fulfil personal needs.
However, the guiding principles here
Be respectful of yourself
Be honest with your partner.
Practice safe sex
Positive support from family and friends is always important
Otherwise reach out for help you’re not alone